CNOtes – February 25, 2020 – Shannon Clarke – Brigid’s Path

Phather Phil’s Prayer

Heavenly Father developing good routines and habits allows us to feel free to let our minds soar. The problem is we are the pilot and when the world does it’s tempting we have the propensity to listen. Then we find ourselves in a war without our armor of God. We’ll lose our sense of direction. Fortunately our mind jerks us back by the seat of our pants – to reality. The book we need to read wasn’t written by Hugh Hefner, but by You, Lord. Help us stay in reality for our directions. Amen!

Today’s Guests – WELCOME!

Guest Guest Of
Shannon Clarke Speaker
Jeff Louderback Mike Bevis
Anne Miller Guest
Maureen Ruff Debe Dockins
Laura Thimons Debe Dockins

All Photos from the Meeting are Here

Committee Meetings

3/18/2020, 6 PM, Golf Committee at Buckeye Home Health Care on Paragon Rd. Future 2020 meetings will be 4/15, 5/13, 6/17, and 7/8.

3/12/2020, 6:30 PM Childhood Health and Wellness at Panera – downtown Centerville. Future 2020 meetings will be 3/12, 4/9, 5/14, 6/11, 7/9, 8/13, 9/10. All are welcome to attend.

Community Events

3/14/2020, 9:00 – 12:00 at Watts Middle School Gym, Tri Star Basketball.

3/26/2020, 5:30 to 7:30 PM, NOW Event at Yankee Trace Golf Club

Social Events

3/14/2020 at 6 PM, Wine and Beer Tasting at the home of Patrick and Diane Arehart.

4/24/2020, Hunchback of Notre Dame play at CHS followed by dinner at Old Scratch pizza. Times will be provided later.

5/2/2020, Kentucky Derby Party at Remodeling Designs.


Beth Duncan along with her sock models Jerry Stahley and Brian Nolan, announced that Optimist Socks are now available for $15 at

Cherie Gentry Inducted into Ohio Hall of Fame

Pat Behn announced that at the recent district meeting, The Great Ohio District has added Cherie Gentry to its hall of fame. Cherie has devoted several years to multiple Optimist Clubs and is a previous Governor of The Great Ohio District.

Thank you, Cherie, for all that you have done and will do as a Friend of Youth.

Brigid’s Path – Shannon Clarke

Jean Pummill introduced Shannon Clarke, the volunteer coordinator for Brigid’s Path, a newborn recovery center offering grace, support and hope. Since they welcomed their first baby in December 2017, they have cared for 73 babies and families in the crisis of addiction. They are the first facility in Ohio to offer in-patient, home-like treatment. They have kept 61 of the 73 kids helped from having to enter the foster care system.

Their mission: “Brigid’s Path improves the health of newborn babies and mothers impacted by addiction. We offer grace for the past, support for the present, and hope for the future.”

They believe one person can make a difference if there is an army behind them.

They employ the latest therapeutic techniques – both medicinal and nonpharmacological – to help babies be as comfortable as possible while they experience withdrawal.

These babies have Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome (NAS). NAS is a group of behavioral and physical conditions a baby experiences when withdrawing from exposure to drugs in the womb. Shannon described it as being 100 times worse than the flu.

They ween the babies off the morphine for 15 days. The symptoms can linger for another 2 years after being weened.

They use a wholistic approach to mom and baby in a non-confrontational way.

They accept donations of money and time. You can get details at their website. Information is available on what it takes to become a cuddler. They are able to give babies comfort 24 x 7, something that a NICU cannot provide. They have a large need for cuddlers between 12 am and 6 am.

Thank You Notes sent to CNO

You can read recent thank you notes here.

CNO Donations 2013 through September 2019

Click this link to see a summary of the donations our club has made.

Over 50 years, we have donated close to $2,000,000 to our youth community. In the past 6 years, we have donated nearly $700,000.


Member Birthday
Pat Behn February 26
John Sherman February 26
Ashley Simeone February 26
Blanca Criner February 26
Joan Cordonnier February 28
Aaron Campbell February 28
Rachel Goetz March 2
Tim Clemmer March 2
Tim Stull March 2

Membership Anniversaries

Member Month Day Joined # Years
Chris Ziehler February 26 2/26/2017 3
Jane Fiehrer February 27 2/27/1998 22
Judy DeMarco February 27 2/27/1998 22
Dick Stevens February 28 2/28/2001 19
Kelly Stone February 28 2/28/2001 19

New Member Readings and Inductions

Name Sponsor 1st 2nd 3rd Reading or Induction
Kate Trangenstein Jesse Lightle Induction
D. Ralph Young Charlie Tapp Induction

Sergeants at Arms

Member Infraction
Greg Griffin Yankee Trace was short on lunch servers today.
Donna Huss Fined in order to retrieve the tip she received for helping serve lunch today.
Scott Langer Was late and stole someone else’s lunch.
Paul Stull Committed an offense against the sergeants.
Sue Jesse Winning the pot of money for the last “going alone” hand at the recent Euchre party in just the last couple of minutes from Mike Brubaker.
Mike Brubaker Letting Sue Jesse win the pot of money for the last “going alone” hand at the recent Euchre party.
Vida McDowell Larry Lynde went alone twice in Euchre while being Vida’s partner, which made her the winner of Euchre.
Bob Duffy For wearing UD hat instead of Ohio State.
Jerry Stahley Modeling the Optimist socks Beth brought much longer than he had to.
Mike Brem Couldn’t find his name badge last week in a timely manner.

 Happy Bucks!

Member Reason
Donna Huss Happy she got a tip for helping to serve our lunches today.
Brian Nolan Paula Kalaman, who is one of the strongest people he knows, has done well with her recent medical procedure. She told him she wants to cuddle babies.
Beth Duncan Today is Kelly and Bill Stone’s 6th wedding anniversary.
Craig Dring Thanked everyone for their donations to Daybreak in memory of his father Jay Dring, who recently passed away.
Beth Duncan Her uncle, a WWII veteran who helped liberate prisoners of the Dauchau concentration camp and spoke to CNO, led a great life and has passed away at age 94.
Beth Duncan Happy she could attend the Euchre tournament last week.
Charlie Tapp Thanks to Beth, Brian and the rest of the social committee for all their hard work.
Myron Rheaume $5, thanks to everyone at CNO for the cards and support.
Myron Rheaume Granddaughter, a sophomore film student at UC will be filming a project in Cincinnati over spring break for a Christian based streaming service. This summer she will intern in Munich Germany on a movie with a major German movie production company.
Cherie Gentry Happy about being added to the Ohio Optimist Hall of Fame. Joining Optimist clubs is one of the best things she has ever done. She is a member of 3 clubs. She really enjoys and appreciates CNO.
Vida McDowell Thanks to all the partners she had at last week’s Euchre tournament that led her to the big win for the night.

CNOtes – November 5, 2019 – D. Ralph Young – “Forgotten Heroes”

Phather Phil’s Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank you for the blessings of the Optimist spirit. A blessing not just for our self’s, but for those who join us in showcasing Optimism and a helping hand to youth. Let us also be mindful of those who need to know You better. May we show the same enthusiasm for our love for You , so that more will adopt Your loving ways. Thereby enjoying a life of peace and harmony with others as well as within themselves. Amen!

Today’s Guests – WELCOME!

Guest Guest Of
Glenn George Kelly George
Anne Kohls Steve Kohls
D. Ralph Young Speaker
Janice Young Speaker’s Wife

All Photos from the Meeting are Here

Community Event

11/14/2019, Build-A-Bear for Oncology patients will be at Children’s Hospital. More volunteers are always welcome. Contact Nancy Lehren, the chair of Child Health and Wellness.

Social Events

  • 12/10/2019 – 6 PM, Tuesday, CNO’s Holiday Party at Yankee Trace. NOTE: there will not be a lunch meeting that Tuesday.


Nancy Lehren, chair of Child Health and Wellness, announced that CNO received a $1000 grant from Optimist International for Build-A-Bear.

Laurie Poeppelman, chair of Optigear, said that she and Evelyn Griffin will be taking orders for the next 2 weeks. They have Micro Fleece garments available. You can choose the CNO or CNO 2.0 logo.

Tom Novak announced that for Veteran’s day we will deliver 2420 flags. This is the 15th Veteran’s day that we have delivered flags. The first year we delivered on Veteran’s day there were only 35 flags to deliver.

Chris McAlpine announced that CNO will have a booth at Winterfest at Primary Village South on 12/7/2019 from 9 AM to 1 PM. The game is super easy. We challenge the kids to balance a bean bag on their foot and walk from a starting line and drop it in a box.  If they can do one bag, we add a bean bag to both feet.  Then add bags to hands, forehead, shoulder, or anything that’s funny.  While the kids are playing, we talk to their parents about the Optimist club.  Chris is looking for volunteers.

Greg Fay announced that the last 2.0 of the year will be at Chappy’s Social House in Centerville on November 21, 2019 at 5:30 PM. The speaker will be Vail Miller from Heidelberg Distributing.

Don Wildenhaus reported about the recent banquet for TOPSoccer. There were 150 players at the banquet. There were 7 teams, and this was the 22nd year. There are 300 players total.  It was scheduled for 4:30 PM, but some kids arrived at 3:30PM because they were so excited. The Centerville Noon Optimist Club has been a sponsor for this program for several years.

World War II Veteran D. Ralph Young

Charlie Tapp introduced World War II veteran, engineer, and author D. Ralph Young.

From a bio found on the internet:Ralph Young was born in central Kentucky in 1925 and was raised on a farm in Lincoln County. He served as a Gunner’s Mate on the USS J Franklin Bell for nearly 3 years during WWII.

After military service he obtained an engineering degree from the University of Kentucky. He was involved in developing electric power systems all over the USA as well as the Middle East and Southeast Asia. He retired to his place of birth in Kentucky 3 times before really calling it over from an active engineering career to become an author and write 2 books: The Power of a Mothers Prayer and Forgotten Warriors.

In 2006 he was inducted into the University of Kentucky, College of Engineering Hall of Distinction.

One of his electric systems projects was in Saudi Arabia. At the King’s request, he was instrumental in the success of the King’s consolidated power project.

He thanked us for inviting him to come and speak to us today. His wife Janice Young was able to attend as his guest today as well. Before he started his presentation, in honor of veteran’s day he had all the veteran’s at today’s lunch stand up. It is awesome how many veteran’s give of their time and resources to help the Centerville Noon Optimist Club help the youth of our community.

Ralph presented a slide show he created titled, “World War II: The War in the Pacific”. There are many more slides and stories in his slide deck than are reported here.

He said that D-Day’s 75th anniversary rightly received a huge worldwide commemoration, but just 9 days after D-Day was the 75th anniversary of the Battle of Saipan. This battle was just as important and there were twice the number of casualties. Here is an article from the Saipan Tribune about the commemorating of the battle of 71,000 U.S. Marines and soldiers who landed on the island and to remember the nearly 3500 killed and more than 10,000 wounded.

He made a commitment to himself to write a book about forgotten warriors. “Forgotten Warriors: The Amphibious March Across the Pacific During World War II” was published in 2016 and a second revision will be released in time for Christmas 2019. There were 16 million American WWII soldiers. At the end of 2018 there were 496,777 still living. If he has it his way, Ralph said he plans to be the last man standing.

He showed a slide of the WWII Amphibious March Across the Pacific. Several leaders had different plans and routes across the Pacific.

During World War II, Japanese soldiers were trained to die for their emperor. For the WWII War in the Pacific the weather was the third enemy. The weather killed as many soldiers as did the Japanese.

After Pearl Harbor, Japan had a huge area of land to protect after they attacked. Their pilots were well trained, and their planes were very effective. Japan had 400,000 soldiers trained with another 800,000 on standby.

Worldwide there were 96 million casualties. The war in Europe and the Pacific were very different. Soldiers were five times more likely to be killed while fighting in the Pacific than in Europe. In Europe, only 1% of POW’s died while captive. In the Pacific, 40% of them died.

Ralph said there were many acts of extreme bravery during WWII, more than you can imagine. He showed a picture of Marine Richard Kraus from WWII. During a horrific battle, Kraus and 3 other guys volunteered for stretcher duty to retrieve a wounded soldier. During the trip the enemy threw a grenade at the four of them. Kraus gave his life to save the others by throwing himself on the grenade.

He said the turning point in the war was at Midway. He showed a picture of George Gay, who was not awarded a Medal of Honor but was a hero just the same. He was gunned down over the ocean and survived by hiding under his seat cushion from the plane for 30 hours. He went on to become a TWA pilot for 30 years. After his death, Gay’s ashes were spread over the water at Midway.

The story of Thomas A. Baker from Troy, New York is another example of bravery. He was injured badly during a battle and he knew he was going to die. Baker had a medic prop him against a tree with a pistol.   When the medic found Baker later, he and 8 enemy soldiers around him were dead.

There was a slide about Desmond Doss, a conscientious objector who still wanted to help and became a combat medic. He was twice awarded the Bronze Star Medal for actions in Guam and the Philippines. He refused to carry a gun. He saved 75 men at the battel of Okinawa by lowering wounded soldiers one by one down a cliff. He is the only conscientious objector to receive the Medal of Honor for his actions during WWII. There is a 2016 movie about him and the battle called Hacksaw Ridge.

Ralph said that Saipan is now an affordable paradise vacation destination for the Japanese. Everything is way too expensive on the mainland of Japan. Ralph and others visited Saipan in December of 2017. Locals found out who he was and there was an award ceremony for valor in the Pacific during WWII and he was given a medal. He said they were treated like royalty for saving their island. Everywhere they went there were hugs and kisses from the local Chamorros, who were mistreated by the Japanese during the war.

Runway Able on the island of Tinian could be the most historical airstrip on Earth. The battle on Tinian started on 7/24/1944, and 8 days later 8000 of the 8800 Japanese troops were dead. The next year the island of Tinian made history when 2 planes took off from Runway Able carrying nuclear weapons that were dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki.

The war in the Pacific ended with the horrific killing of 120,000 in Hiroshima and Nagasaki. Ralph said that using the nuclear bomb on those two cities saved an estimated 500,000 American lives. Just 16 hours after the second bomb hit Nagasaki, the Emperor of Japan, without consulting anyone, decided to end the war. Remember that before these weapons were used surrendering was not an option for the Japanese. The A-Bomb brought Japan out of the barbaric society.

Ralph has two passions in life. Engineering and telling the world about what his fellow soldiers did to win the war in the Pacific.

He has had the most fantastic life anyone could hope for. During the war his mother constantly prayed for him. He has felt protected by God his whole life.

Thank you, D. Ralph Young, for sharing your stories with us today. It was a great presentation and so wonderful to have you speak to us just before Veteran’s Day.

Thank You Notes Sent to CNO

You can read recent thank you notes here.

CNO Donations 2013 through June 2019

Click this link to see a summary of the donations our club has made.

Over 50 years, we have donated close to $2,000,000 to our youth community. In the past 6 years, we have donated nearly $700,000.


Member Birthday
Charlie Tapp November 6
Drew Mckenzie November 6
Judy McFadden November 6
Laurie Poeppelman November 7
Paul Webendorfer November 7
Dan Apolito November 8
Ken Irwin November 9
Dean Heyne November 10
Gary Aiken November 11

Membership Anniversaries

Member Month Day Joined # Years
Bob Vogt November 8 11/8/2005 14

New Member Readings and Inductions

Name Sponsor 1st 2nd 3rd Reading or Induction
Dawayne Kirkman Debe Dockins Induction
Andy Higgins Mike Brubaker Induction
Abby Davis Vince Reidy 3rd Reading
Lacy Owens Stan Fronzaglia 3rd Reading
Beverly Dunnington Bob Lawson 3rd Reading
James Reinhard Andy Dickerson 2nd Reading
Christopher Wysong Debe Dockins 2nd Reading
Jay Schindler Mike Bevis 1st Reading

Sergeants at Arms

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 Happy Bucks! 

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